Faith-rooted tools for raising kids

Raise them with a village around them.

Raising Your Tribe helps parents raise children who are grounded in faith, sure of who they are, and surrounded by people who will guide them. We make rituals, tools and conversations that put those principles into practice.

The Five

How we raise a tribe

Five principles shape everything we make. Each offering serves one of them, so you always know what it is for.

Model

Live what you want them to learn.

Protect

Cover their spirit, mind and body.

Connect

Be the safe place they come home to.

Guide

Steward their gifts and help them choose well.

Spoken Over lives here

Provide

Give memories and provision that last.

Our first offering · Launches November 2
Spoken Over
A Rite of Passage for Sons

A rite of passage that surrounds your son for life. Gather the men who love him, bless him by name, and leave him with a Council he can call for the rest of his life. One night of words. A village for life.

Guide $29Words of Blessing $119For sons 13 to 16
A Raising Your Tribe ceremony · Guide principle
What's next

More for the whole tribe

In development. Join the list and you'll hear first, with founding-family pricing.

Spring 2027 · Guide, Connect

A daughter's rite of passage

Her own ceremony, with the women and men who will stand with her.

Summer 2027 · All five

The 90-Day Principled Parenting Plan

A workbook and email course to build your family's own plan, one principle at a time.

Fall 2027 · Connect, Guide

Raising Teens cohort

Four weeks with other parents, working through the years when they pull away.

"No young man should have to navigate life alone. Neither should his parents." Thomas Z Lukoma, co-founder

Raising Your Tribe started at our kitchen table, with a question every parent asks: how do we raise children who know who they are and whose they are?

When my son entered his thirteenth year, I gathered seven men to bless him and speak into his life. That day became Spoken Over, our first offering, and it showed me what this work is about: no family should raise children alone.

Everything here is built from real life, tested in our own home, and made to be simple enough to actually use.

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5 Questions for your son's Council

One question for each pillar of T.O.R.C.H., ready to hand to the men in his life. You'll also get our weekly note for parents.